we aint going to give up with the visitors visa, but my family have told me that if he can't get the visitors visa then i may after go down the spouse visa route, which i would because i love him. its just so hard cos he lives in Italy now alone and i don't want him to be alone you know what i mean.

Congratulations on the visa, hopefully it will be me one day. i have been with my boyfriend since august 2006 he is albanian but lives in Italy is family still live in Albania. I have been to Italy to visit him 9 times and he aint been to england yet, he applied for visitors visa in October 2007 and...