Hi Vinay, Thanks for the info. I have tried to digest as much as possible. Am still not sure where I stand, but am seeing a solicitor this week. It looks like his 2nd marriage is not recognised here. But he also did not tell his authorities there about me, his 1st wife when he took the 2nd. that mig...

Thanks for all the replies. Actually I didnt come here to stir up a hornets nest. I came to ask for practical advice not sympathy, but felt it important to explain the situation. As for me receiving benefits, I have worked hard and paid my due, so I am entitled to these things . He is'nt entitled t...

Thanks for all the replies. Actually I didnt come here to stir up a hornets nest. I came to ask for practical advice not sympathy, but felt it important to explain the situation. As for me receiving benefits, I have worked hard and paid my due, so I am entitled to these things. He is'nt entitled to ...

When I became muslim 5 years ago, I trusted all muslims. Especially those that came from Islamic countries such as Pakistan. Then I met my husband. He also knew that I had trust problems. He often used to say that British men are bad, with morals and such. Yet I am now convinced that he was already ...

johnboy, Salaams :) thanks for your reply. Having read your story on the link your posted, this goes on far too often. I am absolutely heartbroken by my husbands actions. I failed to mention in my previous posts , that I had faxed a letter last December, to Islamabad withdrawing my support. At that ...

Yes, it is a difficult situation. I really dont know if I can trust him. I feel like he is a sponge soaking up all my emotions. I hope I can make the right decision soon. Thanks guys I know that if his new business is a success then everyone back home will be happy and rich! I dont think he has much...

One thing I didnt mention, is that last October before he went home, he redirected his post to where I am living, only bank statements come for him. They still come here. Perhaps he's trying to be clever for the future, I dont know. But all bills etc for the flat are in my name, also tenancy, as I m...

When was his spouse visa granted? When did he stay in Pakistan (how many months)? How many months in total (giving the dates) did he spend in Pakistan? At this point: They(immigration) phoned me. I either had to give permission to leave Heathrow, or they would put him in a detention centre, then at...

DID I POST IN THE RIGHT SECTION?Please can someone advise me. I am a born UK citizen. I married a Pakistani man almost 4 years ago. His status here was that of a failed assylum seeker. We were advised that he stood a better chance obtaining his spouse visa in Pakistan. 18mths ago he returned there, ...