Not much happening on my front,lol. But did find out for sure that my h cant apply for any visa here, and has to go home, even to get a business permit. So think he's well and truly stumped. Still get text messages, but am learning to handle that better. Didnt get the harrassement court order yet. T...
Hi johnboy, A shame you cant get a copy of the determination as you would obviously want to know the outcome. Can anyone else get a copy? I dont know how these things work really. I've pasted this link for you. dont know how I found it originally, possibly here somewhere. But I found them to be very...
I would think the reason you have been asked to submit more photos is purely because people's looks can change in 4 years. Try not to worry too much about this. :) I dont understand why your work need to see your passport though. Why have they asked for it? If you have a NI number and some other pro...
Hi gollywood, Hope you get the e-mail sent today. The Embassy hopefully will reply quickly. They might initially respond by saying 'thanks for your enquiry. It has now been passed to the necessary officer for him to deal with.' If this is the case, then you should hear very soon. Hope this reassures...
Hi johnboy, I agree as such, with gollywood and your dad. But your immediate collegues seem to be supportive, so thats good. Shame the powers to be have to be so strict these days. Goes right across the working sector, not just in your case. Seems the days have long past when employers and employees...
Appreciate you came asking for help. Did you get the right advice after your question? As the HO are asking for 4 photos, I would say this is a good indication. They will afterall need the photos for the necessary paperwork, and also for their own records. Thought others had given you a positive res...
thanks gollywood :D Have now asked that non-molestation order is put in place. Since my earlier post today, hubby's business partner came to my home pleading his case. I didnt let him in, but we conversed through the window, hehe. Must have looked bit odd to the neighbours. Seems that as restaurant ...
Long live free speech! Not much to report as such. Same old rubbish from him. Have changed my landline tel.no. At least if he calls my mobile I know it's him (landline caller ID not available in my area)so can choose to answer or not, depending on my mood :) Will get an injuction if it gets worse fo...
Hey johnboy, Well, where do I start? How come her 1st legal rep dropped out? Maybe he thought she didnt stand a chance, and didnt want to waste more time on her. Great news that the HO told the judge to still go ahead with the hearing Like you say, she doesnt want to play ball with the legal system....
hehe, nice txt She seems remarkably calm. But it's all show of course. My h does similar when he's in a fix, so all bla de bla de bla. :) Seems sensible to stay away tomorrow, especially as others have advised it. So she'll be surprised when you're not there then,hehe. So chill out tomorrow, and enj...
Yes, you can be succesful getting a fiance/spouse visa if previously a failed assylum seeker. But you need to understand that you arent guaranteed it. My husband went home under such circumstances but was told he stood 50/50 chance of getting a spouse visa. He did however get his. it depends on the ...
salaams, Well, an update for you about my situation. My solicitor sent my h a letter asking him not to call or contact me, as it is harrassment. Also his family and friends must not do so either. If he doesnt comply with this, then a court injunction will be applied for, costs to be met by him, and ...
Hi Plebnotics, You didnt mention how the divorce is going. Has it now been finalised? I would also say that you must ask her new boyfriend to leave your home. It is totally unacceptable that you have to pay out for the majority of the bills etc. You could go to Citizens Advice Bureau initially, and ...
mathew777, You have given us more info about this guy. It does appear that he is a fraud, and claiming disablement money. Although he is actually able to work and get disability, strange as it may seem, but I'm sure there are still some restrictions on that. If he is a doorman at a nightclub, then h...
Fees are hardly a rip off!
If people want to come here then this is a small price to pay out, when you consider all the advantages.
It might mean adjusting the purse strings for a while, thats all.
Hi, I think you just have to rely on your solicitor now. I suppose you appealed against the asylum decision when it was refused? What was the outcome with that, or are you still waiting? From what you are saying, you status is now that of an illegal. I realise that you also have to survive, and that...
Hi, You say there are 2 of you here. Who is the other person? If you have decided to leave the UK, then personally I think it would be better to tell the HO you want to leave. Why do you want to leave unoticed? This wouldnt help at all. If you leave voluntarily, then under new rules as of April1st, ...
mathew777, I understand your frustrations regarding this guy. But he is only one of many thousands. And you only know one personally? By all means you can report him to the authorities, but what's in it for you? As he has already been granted ILR I'm not sure you can do much about his status. And pe...
Thanks johnboy,
Yes, Ive already given a fairly detailed account to the Local MP, and will give him more. I just hope he wants to help, but guess he should, as it's part of his role. I'll let you know when he e-mails me back.
A mixture of Hitler and Mussolini eh? Well, there's a thought
Hi folks, Starting to get a bit nasty. First things first, am waiting for a reply from my local MP. Now down to the nitty gritty. My solicitor has just phoned. He has received a letter from my h's solicitor(wasnt sure he had one, but still, he has) The letter states that my h doesnt believe that the...
It's been mentioned several times about getting the local MP involved. I'm wondering if I should do this? Divorce papers should be served my h tomorrow, if he takes them that is. I have also sent an email to the Shariah council in Leyton, asking if they think I have grounds for khulla. johnboy, sorr...
Thanks you guys for the support. I am just about keeping my head above water,lol masalawalla, it would seem that it might be easier to do the divorce in Pakistan. So I guess the main concern here is her applying for ILR or something else. And you are right in as much as immigration wont do anything ...
Hi johnboy, Yes I thought you would tell me this. It really amazes me how some Pakistani's can really turn on the tears when they are put in a corner. Do you think I should consider khula? Something tells me that he will never disappear from my life if he still has this hold over me. I guess an Isla...
firstly johnboy- we wish you well next Tuesday. Our prayers of course are with you. Expect you feel nervous about the hearing. Better still, maybe it's just the system taking its course, and you are rebuilding your life,insha'allah. masalawalla- good you got a phonecall. And hope that abridged lette...
