Infant mortality rate ranking by country https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/rankorder/2091rank.html 1. Angola 180.21 per 1000 live births 152. Russia 10.56 per 1000 live births 158. Ukraine 8.98 per 1000 live births 180. USA 6.26 per 1000 live births 182. EU 5.72 per 1000 li...
One of the options, which should be very good, since you say it's a genuine relationship is to live with the girl for 2 years and apply for unmarried visa.