Thanks for your all reply. and sorry it seems I gave you controversy about abuse on here. Sorry again to sanjac and his/her friend... But its very nice to hear that most of you guys don't accept even mental abuse...I've thought people wont take it seriously, cuz its invisible to others... I'm happy ...

Dear D4109125,

Thanks for your comment in another post.

What you said might be true.

Of course, not for visa. Ive thought its my duty to stop him not good behaviour as wife. Yes, I still love him. I'd like to say we shouldn't use visa for threatening. And we have to be strong. If we are mean to others, others would be mean,too. Hope sanjacs's friend is not cursing her partner... Neg...

I checked their website.
I would call them.

UKBA cut my phone... As everybody said we shouldn't call them, we should
write to them instead.

Thanks!

I haven't contacted them yet.

I've been mentally and financially abused by my husband, then I'm devastated lately, so I didn't even think to contact them...
I try to call them now.

Thanks a lot

Hi sanjacs and everyone, I'm in a bit similar situation with your friend. I really understand how she feels now. 6 months before my application for ILR(Earlier in 2012), my British husband's mental abuse has started. But I couldn't tell anybody cause I have been really scared if I can't get ILR. So ...

[quote="D4109125"][quote="shenibbs7"]Hi everyone, I applied ILR SET(M) in August, 2012 Then I received refusal letter today. Reason is... they haven't received additional documents which I sent via Special Delivery. (I confirmed they received before deadline) Should I ask UKBA to...

Hi everyone, I applied ILR SET(M) in August, 2012 Then I received refusal letter today. Reason is... they haven't received additional documents which I sent via Special Delivery. (I confirmed they received before deadline) Should I ask UKBA to return my additional docs for appeal? Does anyone have s...