If I inform the ukba now. What will happen to him? Would they deport him straight away or give him time to apply as a father

I'm talking about the other woman's child. He has not denied our own children together and has been in their lives since their birth.

He acknowledged the child when he's trying to get me jealous, but when we reconciled briefly he denied the child and now she will b taking him to CSA he has refused to do dna test

Yes he does take an intrest in them he was the one to take them to school pick up etc but now is will be picking them up myself he had a good bond with them can't deny that. But he wants things on his terms all the time. I don't think you should have a right to dictate when you are the cause of the ...

Obie you are totally right. He is a cheif manipulator. Even after seial cheating and actually fathering a child which is a few months old (that is why we are splitting up) he still has a hold on me through our own children.

Do u think it's mean of me to make him do this? Am I harming the kids to spite him ?

Ok thank you he will not want to do that but these are the consequences of having affairs ....

Ok thank you he will not want to do that but these are the consequences of having affairs ....

So u mean the 6 years , combined with 4 years from the parental application then he can get IL. Don't know why I'm worrying about him and his situation. If he wanted to do the right thing he wouldn't have cheated on me in the first place. Now he's pressurising me to go through and help him apply for...

So instead of getting his IL this year after 6 years discretionary leave under the old rules, he would have to start all over again ?

Cbackground we have 2 children together. Applied for second DL 2 yers ago therefore my ex is due to apply for IL. He cheated we are splitting up. Can he change his application purely for access to his british children? Can he still apply for IL based on his children and not the relationship ?

Congrats Teebaby so happy for you ! We still cant believe we got our extension in 3 weeks we were prepared for a fight because as you know they are heartless even to those who have british children. Also our first payment for flro was invalid but God made a way. I pray for victory for everyone still...

Dear forum Just wanted to let everyone know our good news. We have received BRP today and an extension of DL for 3 years! All thanks to God. We are very relieved. Please keep fighting on my brothers and sisters I will keep you all in my prayers. i will post a timeline below first 3 yrs DL expired on...

[quote="hatchsead"][quote="rachelA"]just a small update on our application for flr o discretionary leave extension: applied 16/8/13. first leave to remain expired on 19th august received letter and documents back on the 31/8/13 saying invalid because they couldnt take fees resubm...

do cautions have to be declared on the flr o form for extension of ltr or just convictions?

just a small update on our application for flr o discretionary leave extension: applied 16/8/13. first leave to remain expired on 19th august received letter and documents back on the 31/8/13 saying invalid because they couldnt take fees resubmitted flr o with a covering letter on the 2/9/13 receive...

[quote="SDP"][quote="rachelA"]just to update i have resent the flr o application on the 2nd of sept. I have quoted Basnet and made it clear that my application was not invalid. Praying for a good outcome and that they will use common sense for once[/quote] Why do you have to rese...

just to update i have resent the flr o application on the 2nd of sept. I have quoted Basnet and made it clear that my application was not invalid. Praying for a good outcome and that they will use common sense for once

misskaa same thing happened to us. check with your bank if theyve tried to take the money. it wont show on ur statement but the bank will b able to tell u.

thank u everyone for your reassurance i work full time for the nhs so cant claim destitution. im just scared that they will be harsh with us and tell us that he now has no leave to remain when we resend the application. all i can do is attach the proof of postage for the intial in-time application a...

do u think i have grounds to appeal and take this to the first tier tribunal?

thank u @Believe2013 do you think they will say the applicatiob is invalid if i resubmit? the Basnet ruling states that the postal applicatiob system is unfair because they do not give you an opportunity to correct any mistakes. if it wad an in person apolication you get a chance to give a different...

please can someone reply i will be truly grateful for your opinion im struggling with all this

please help we applied for ab flr o extension on the 16th of august. we received a letter from the ukba dated 20th of august which said thank you for the application if there are any issues with your fee yout applicatiob will be rejected it has now been passed to a caseworker for considerstion.you w...

please help we applied for ab flr o extension on the 16th of august. we received a letter from the ukba dated 20th of august which said thank you for the application if there are any issues with your fee yout applicatiob will be rejected it has now been passed to a caseworker for considerstion.you w...