Wht to do

[Adaman]

Hi . I came to England in 2009 as a student . At tht time ukba gave me 2 years and 6 month visa . When my student visa about to finish in 2012 jan .I applied to extend my student visa they have refused it . I appealed against the decision to extend my student visa and in the same time I got married. I regester myself here in June 2012 . In July 2012 my appeal was refused again to extend my study visa . I submitted a new application in August 2012 foe spouse visa .. They gave me 2 nd half year residence permit and said I hve to applied for more three .. 2 nd half years visas to make to 10 years total to apply for indefinate visa .
Now I got two beautifull kidz one of them is 18 months and 1 is three months we both (me &mrs) still live togeTher but things aren't going right between us ..
My question is tht how ca I get infefinate asap ..
And other question wht if we both separate wht wil happen then how to get indefinate then .
Thank you