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by miele » Tue Mar 24, 2015 3:57 am
My son's got married a year ago to an indian girl, she is not british been in UK for 3 or 4 years. My son is british born. Their baby is 6 weeks old. When his wife found out she was pregnant her parents told her to put the baby on her passport, I told my son that she cannot do that because she is not british after many argument my son told me his wife solicitor said the baby should be put on her passport it'll be no problem the solicitor is indian also.
My son and his wife relationship has always kept secret from me, I met his wife in December, January they came back from India engaged, March they were married by June she was pregnant, my son lied saying he was going to India to attend his friend wedding then said the wedding was cancelled and that he is staying with his then girlfriend which I didn't even know he had who became his wife.
Their baby has been registered and they have 4 copies of his birth certificate, my son has put a different surname to his on the baby birth certificate, our surname starts with St, but he's put Saint hopefully that is no problem, I ask him for a copy of my grandson birth certificate but he has refused to give me one even though he told me he's got me a copy. I told him I shall check with my solicitor to make sure it won't be a problem but for some reasons he says they want to use his wife solicitor and not mine.
They seems to panic every time, I mention my solicitor, his wife mother talking in her language said something about passport, she is in UK and staying with my son and his wife, she is going back April or May, I am very concern that I may lose my grandson that they'll take him to India, my son do not know the indian culture, they are trying everything to keep me away, the wife has been married before and have a family in India, my son do not know of it she told me before they got married that it is not her first time being married which surprised me.
My son's wife act strange when she is in my company, she doesn't talk much and I am not allowed to ask much question or give any opinion my son would stop me talking before I open my mouth, yet his wife mother can say and ask anything she wants, she of course has been given her copy of my grandson birth certificate and is in charge of sorting out my grandson passport.
I would like some advice, I'm I correct to be concern about my grandson? Is there somethingI can do if she decide to take him out of the country to India, I am very worry for my grand baby what will happen to him. My son is very blind to what's going on and do her bidding.
Is an indian mother allowed to have her child on her passport even though she is not british?
Can she take him out of UK?
Any help would be appreciated
Thanks in advance.