Thank you I must have misunderstood your point. My worry is what to do now! not what we should have done.. as that’s over and done with now! there is nothing we can do to turn back the clock. I am sure you would agree!sally12345 wrote:SYH wrote:sally12345 wrote:
I am not about to tell my life on this post! but in short we wanted to get married back in 2004 but my mum had a stoke and that prevented things of course! and then in 2005 you had the COA and of course we could not get married. And overstayers don’t rush to get married for a visa!
Well I don't want to know the details and I am sure there could be extenuating circumstances but it is what it is and you really can't complain if those are the rules, you just have to play the game
well that’s not our plan our pan is to be strong and love each other fight the case, and work hard! my partner has GNVQ NVQ AND city and Guilds etc all this was done whilst legal! the degree he is doing now as that was his wish to educate himself. So what?
what must he do sit down and do nothing or commit senseless crimes! or work hard to achieve a better life! I do understand your point and thank you but life is hard as a overstayer and everyone has, there reasons for such actions. I just wish I can turn back the clock but we cant so we move on and try and fight. We the strength I receive from God all will be ok.
I might add I am not taking anything away from you nor is my partner he dont claim or abuse the system! Well actually you have just not maybe to the point others have
In any case, I am not directing the point just at you specifically so you need not get overexcited by my point of view. Its just my observation that people all sudden feel the need to legitimize themselves after they get married or when they are ready to get married.
You kind of missed the point of what I was saying. I don't mean people get married in order to legitimize their status. Its just too late to think oh I want to be legal just at the point you want to get married. You waited too long to get your act together which is really what I am going with that observation.
You sound nice enough so I really don't have anything against you or think any less of you than others
As I said before I wont go into detail about my case as that’s personal But what I will say is I will fight the case and go to court if I have to.
I don’t think that you have a personal attack on every overstayer your are stating your point and you are free to do so.
As I keep saying I just want to make things right for my family, I cant say anymore than I just want to live life, The right way and not having to watch our backs for years and years![/quote]
oh your comment!!!!!! SO WHAT! my point is he is not just sitting on his arse! or trying to abuse the system in order to get pubic funds and free Health care and so on he is trying to make something of his self! that’s what! that I think is really good from a person who does not have such education prospects in their homeland