Thank you all very much for the information, its greatly appreciated
So the main thing now is getting married, then get the marriage cert legalized at the UK and Dutch embassy in KL, so the marriage cert is legal in Malaysia, UK and Holland, then we apply for the EEAFP, and after getting that fly to the UK where I goto the home office to get my EEA1 and where we also apply for my wife's EEA2. Below some lists to what i think is needed for those 3 applications. Please let me know if i missed out on anything, as you said more documents might help our case go smoother and faster thought the system.
Documents required for her EEAFP application:
1a - Marriage cert in English (legalized at UK and Dutch embassies) does this expire after 6 months as with other documents e.g. single status.
1b - Copies of savings to show we wont be a burden to public funds.
1c - Copies of my wife's bank statements showing income in Malaysia.
1d - She already/still has a National Insurance card/number (does this help?).
1e - Copies of all pages of her and mine passport (do they need to be legalized too?).
1f - A letter from our friends declaring they will provide housing.
1g - Proof of relationship: such as photo's, her old Dutch Residence/Work permits showing she lived with me for 1 year in Holland.
Once EEAFP is granted and we're in UK:
Documents required for my EEA1 application (not sure if these are correct):
2a - Legalized marriage cert for UK use (done at UK embassy in KL).
2b - Proof of residence, how do we do that when living with friends?
2c - Proof of work, how do we do that if/when i'm still seeking for a job?
2d - Anything else ?
Documents required for my wife's EEA2 application are:
3a - Legalized marriage cert for UK use (done at UK embassy in KL).
3b - Legalized birth cert for UK use (done at UK embassy in KL).
3c - Proof of residence, how do we do that when living with friends?
3d - Proof of work, how do we do that if/when she is still seeking for a job?
3e - My wife still has a UK bank account, does that help?
3f - Anything else ?
I'm sorry about the flood of questions, but the UKVisas office here is anything but helpful regarding our inquiries. I found the EEA1 and EEA2 application forms on the Home Office website (are these valid and up-to-date? Thats where some of my questions come from while other questions were answered by the same form. Please let me know if i got something wrong or forgot something or have too many documents listed, as the EEA1/EEA2 forms where not clear to which documents they required, it only has a checklist of documents we send in. I also hope this thread can be of help of others doing the same thing. Thanks again!