Hi, all.
I am hoping for some positive experiences with getting passport in married name...
We're a family of 5. 4 of us got our passport (children and myself), however, my wife has an uncancelled Serbian passport in here maiden name. (We both have another citizenship that's in her married name) We've been married for 20 years, outside Serbia, she's only ever been known under her married name, which hasn't been a problem until she needs to get her UK passport.
As everybody knows, this effectively means that although she still has two passports, she can't travel anywhere, as she's got no way of coming back - no more BRPs.
After getting the letter advising her to change her Serbian passport (we've been trying to for over 10 years, they need an apostille, which we can't get from where we got married), and calling the advice line, the dude told me the solution is very simple "just renounce your Serbian citizenship". The cheek! It might look simple to someone who's never left Yorkshire or wherever he's sitting, but it is not that simple. First, my wife's got inherited property there, which she'd have to give up. Second, after talking to the embassy, we learned that even giving up on citizenship would take a couple of years and cost at least £300.
So, after reading all this in this thread, we built a dossier - about 20 years of history of my wife using her married name in several countries, and for the past 7 years in the UK, all started off with a very nice letter to the case worker explaining all these difficulties, and pleading for help, helpfully suggesting they put the observation in the passport.
It's now been three weeks. I called last week, they said they're trying to find a solution and the case was with the policy team, please call back next week. Sounded positive!
Today, exactly seven days later, I call, and a not very friendly lady informs me that nothing's changed, because, you know, it's been a bank holiday in the UK. Now, I know I have an accent, but this assumption that because I have an accent, I do not understand that there's been a day's holiday.... Urggghhh! I can't afford to mention that the bank holiday's only one day, and we are talking three weeks later, as I'll probably just destroy our chances....
I am sick of being treated like a sub-human being, and can't wait to have all the passports. Meanwhile, cost of plane tickets for the summer keeps going up.
Anyway, this is just to get it back to actual cases and to vent a bit.