Everyone, just please remain calm as much as possible.Wanderer wrote:Who do you think you are? What I'm I doing justifying myself to you?
Admin, should I stay I should I go?
Wanderer, you & I have had some exchanges and I am very happy with you here.
If you wish to stay, please do so.
SYH just finally went over the top this week. It has been a pretty steady stream of abuse, and I do mean ABUSE, which I've tolerated for far too long.
I have very regularly allowed adults to play, and sometimes play rough, here. I still want to maintain as much free speech and the widest range of expression possible here.
But I've always asked that People : Just Play Nice. Try to be kind to each other. We are here to help each other.
But, viciously jumping on new members is one thing I've regularly asked members to refrain from. Very hurt and confused people show up here, often without knowing any of the basic things they need to try and figure out their situation.
Give them the benefit of the doubt for a week or two and their first dozen or two posts. They won't last in any forum if they can't get through that much learning curve.
the Admin