- FAQ
- Login
- Register
- Call Workpermit.com for a paid service +44 (0)344-991-9222
ESC
Welcome to immigrationboards.com!
Moderators: Casa, Amber, archigabe, batleykhan, ca.funke, ChetanOjha, EUsmileWEallsmile, JAJ, John, Obie, push, geriatrix, vinny, CR001, zimba, meself2, Administrator
That sounds like a complicated situation, but I think it is not as uncommon as you may think. It is important that you understand the difference between immigration law and family law.masalawalla wrote:Essentially over a period of time I have found out that she has used me to gain entry to the UK. I obviously cannot evict here as my visa conditions were to provide home/expenditure etc.
Without your help, that would be very difficult indeed. I think you should focus more on the private/family law part.How can i stop her applying for permanent settlement or just report her?
Absolutely, they are trying to claim domestic violence. That could be some nasty business, but groundless accusations usually fall down sooner or later.masalawalla wrote:Its like they are following some plan and this was step 1.
Obviously, if you feel threatened, you should go and report it to the police. So far you have very little evidence, but it could be an important record for any further development.My mother has also just told me that when she called them after she returned last week, aswell threatenning to take me for all i got (financially) they also threatenned to do me over.
Give them a call, they should be able to tell you how to proceed. I assume you have to put it in writing and send it to a family caseworker. BIA is the Boarder and Immigration Agency, now responsible for visas and such.Can anybody point me to any post on here which can explain what i need to do or whom to contact. ie Home Office in Uk or Islamabad and whose BIA ?
As I said, one has nothing to do with the other. Booting her out is a matter of private law, and you may want to talk to a lawyer first. It would seem like a good move, though.Am i within my rights to boot her out , considering i was her sponsor ?
To be honest i'm not fussed if she does get her stay or not. I just want to be free of her and her blessed family and know mine will be safe from any retaliation. I'm not sure how i stand financially. They claim they'll take me for all i'm worth even though in our time together she never wanted for anything. I used to send her mother money back home but she asked for me to get her a job which i did. She worked briefly but I never took a penny etc She basically contributed nothing financially to our marriage or running of the house.liane1 wrote:your case is classified as family matters nothing to do with immigration
i know someone with similar story but the family judge said : she is not your slave the fact that she is waiting for a visa does not give you the right to interfer in her immigration file specially if the wife claims you are violant or mistreateing her so un fornatunately nothing you can do a apart from divorce move on and learn from the experience
That`s your weekend sorted thenmasalawalla wrote:Thanks Martha.
The police officer returned with two of the Bristol contingent at 10.30pm. He came to the door first and instructed me, my mother and father to go to the backroom and he then escorted one of the two into the house and upto her room. Not sure obviously what was said and whether she needed serious motivation to go or not
As instructed by the officer earlier in the evening to keep an eye on her from time to time she had not moved from her place other than for a trip to the toilet. At at all times she blanked us. ie. me/dad
Anyway whatever the man said convinced her, not sure if the PO encouraged her or the man as he probably felt it would be best for all concerned if she went. We remained in the backroom and maybe 30odd minutes later i heard the door close. The officer then entered our room in which we were waiting and confirmed she had gone.
Whilst in the room, my mum said she was expecting the Bristol mob to turn up and thankfully it was the case. I think had they not done so then the PO would have come back with a social officer and either forced her to go but i cannot be sure if this is the case.
The officer also confirmed that somebody would hopefully be calling today to take statements from my parents as it was them who had taken the calls which had quoted the two separate death threats. He left around 11.15pm
My mum then went upstair to her bedroom (she usually heads off by 9pm) she was well late but on-route looked in on her room. She told me that she had taken everything other than the things we had picked for her. She had however taken the jewellery etc.
The officer just rang maybe 10 minutes ago (18.37) to apologise that nobody had called round today but said he was in discussion with his sergeant and will sort something out himself and be back in touch. I think he started his shift late and might have expected something to happenned during his time away from duty. He's been very supportive and vigilant. Its possible it could be sometime over this week-end or possibly Monday the person comes to take my parents statements.
Also today a letter arrived addressed to her from local police HQ. It remains unopened and i cannot forward it on as i have no forwarding address. I mentionned this to the officer who rang and he said to hold onto it and he would inform us when he returned with the PO who would take the statements.
Today my parents are feeling somewhat better. They haven't been out all day though having expected the PO to call to arrange their statements.
In the meantime today I spoke to the legal advisor (not specialised in family law) where i work and he has told me not to waste time in seeking a divorce. I shall be looking for good family lawyers over this week-end and then seek one out early next week. I plan to document everything i can over this week-end.