Martha and wanderer thanks for taking interest in my complicate problems well this is exactly what hapened
i came first with a fiancee visa then got maried in an english register office , then went with my husband but we didn t get a long , i asked for my divorce peacefully he refused , i didn t want to return to my country a maried woman and my usband in ana other country refusing to divorce me , i wanted to take my divorce in my hand then return so i can be free
then after that my husband disappeared from his address, during this time i met my current partner , we want to get married but legally i am still married to the other one , so we wanted to get the divorce , we managed to trace him on the internet , then started in a peaceful way asking him for divorce but he keep saying if i want my freedom i need to pay all money he spent on the marriage , my ticket .........etc me and my partner now saved a bit money and i decided i have to leave and leave my partner in charge to get me divorce and serve him a divorce notice to the adress of his work which we found on the net
the mistake i made is staying in the hope to get my divorce but i didin t get anywhere
also my husband is a very rich man he is thinking he is above the law and he doesn t care he can afford 100 solicitor ,when i call at his work he get people working for him answering me saying i need to pay thousands for my freedom!!!!1 my tragedy was money i didn t have money for a solicitor to drug his sorry mule in a court to get my freedom plus since i didn t live with him i don t have any right to stay here
now , what me and my patner are going to do : i gave my fiance power of attorney recently and he will start divorce as soon as possible , me i will leave voluntarily in couple weeks to avoid these new rules and wait for my divorce which i heard will take 2 to 3 months after that i am going to get maried with my partner in my country after that :
after reading your advices i think we either apply to british embassy and see if they refuse or not, if they refuse we will move to an other eu country
my partner job does n t exist in my country , but he can find a job in any eu country
also my husband thought i left uk he is thinking i call him from my country and ther is nobody to get me divorce in uk , but my fiancee with power of atorney will pop up to him with a divorce notice
also during these years my husband made me beleive he did a na nnulment stariaght after i left and if i want a copy i have to buy from him
i looked in all the uk court for any trace of this annulemnt but couldn t find any record so i think he was just bull shiting me trying to make me sufer
he is enjoying this situation , he thinks he has the power and i need to buy my freedom from him !!!
tomorrow i am going to a solicitor and see what they say , i could n t find his home address but i am sure of his work adress , the company he is wrking for he owns shares in this company , i am also worried he could harm me and my partner he is a powerful man with millions
but deep inside i think i am entitled to have my divorce and start a new chapter in my life with the man who care a lot about me and who s been by my side in this bad situation