I know everyone has their own rights but what wrong I have done I applied visa for my husband and the 5 family members of his family they treating me like slave they just need visas once they arrived in uk I can not write all the situation I just want them to stay away from me if not I can leave the UK
I have seen this so many times. People try to bring their family in law using EEA dependency, but when it works, it often turns sour. Indepedently from the immigration consideration, before you bring your family in law, please make sure:
- You have a large disposable income: Dependent adults are expensive. If you are living from salary to salary, you won't be able to face the financial burden of a dependent adult. Even if the Home Office doesn't go beyond being able to cover base necessities, once the adult is at your place, it will go quickly beyond that. You'll need to pay his food, clothes, dentist, flights home, taking him/her out... and this is not for a few weeks, but for many years. Are you happy to rent all your life, renounce to trips, holidays, comfort... just to afford an in law?
- Is he/she able to work: If the person is old, in poor health or young but never worked, the dependency on you will be much higher.
- How large is your house? This is not tested by the Home Office for EEA routes. But make sure you have a large house. Adults need space. Ideally their own bedroom and their own bathroom and more. If your in laws are sleeping every morning in the living room/Spam until 11 am and your family is unable to have a breakfast, that will cause frictions over time.
Even if your are supporting your family by sending money from time to time (most of us do), it's not the same as when they are fully dependent in the UK. It won't be £200 Western Union every few months, but count £200 per week or more all the year, for the foreseeable future.
Sorry for the rant but I have seen no one or two, but many families broken after bringing adults dependent into their lives.
Now, I respond to your question. There is something I dislike more than anything else: injustice! When someone from your family helps you to get out and come to the UK, the minimum to is to respect that person and be thankful.
The nuclear option for you is: leave the UK. As an EEA national, when your flight takes off, they will be all illegal in the UK. Under EEA route, if the EEA national is not exercising Treaty Right, anyone with a Dependent card has to go home.
Leave the UK and inform the Home Office. Game Over. You are free to come back in 6 months time if you want but by then, their cards would've been all invalidated and won't be re-validated again because you come back.
Life is already a nightmare now. You need to reset this situation to your best interest. Leave the UK. Go back to your EEA country. Get some rest and return before end 2020.
