PLZ HELP AND SUGGEST..ITS REALLY BAD FOR ME!

nidhi dora · Post by **nidhi dora** » Thu Dec 04, 2008 3:24 pm

Hi

I am not sure if anyone can help me with a solution.Any help would be highly appreciated.
I have been staying in this countyr for last 4.5 yrs with my husband. Got married to him (he came 6 months before and came here). Have been a dependent earlier on work permits and now a dependent on HSMP.
The ILR though due in oct hasn't been applied yet.
Now my hsuband has left me and my 11 month old daughter and i am not sure what to do.
I don't want to go back to india as i am not sure if i will be able to raise my child there.
I do work but my company is not going to work on getting me a work permit.
Is there some hope for me?
or do i have to go back?

sakura · Post by **sakura** » Thu Dec 04, 2008 3:39 pm

nidhi dora wrote:Hi

I am not sure if anyone can help me with a solution.Any help would be highly appreciated.
I have been staying in this countyr for last 4.5 yrs with my husband. Got married to him (he came 6 months before and came here). Have been a dependent earlier on work permits and now a dependent on HSMP.
The ILR though due in oct hasn't been applied yet.
Now my hsuband has left me and my 11 month old daughter and i am not sure what to do.
I don't want to go back to india as i am not sure if i will be able to raise my child there.
I do work but my company is not going to work on getting me a work permit.
Is there some hope for me?
or do i have to go back?

Where was your daughter born? Does your husband have ILR? When did you separate?

Wanderer · Post by **Wanderer** » Thu Dec 04, 2008 4:59 pm

Why can't u raise ur child in India?

paulp · Post by **paulp** » Thu Dec 04, 2008 10:26 pm

Why didn't your husband apply for ILR?

Vanadil · Post by **Vanadil** » Fri Dec 05, 2008 3:56 pm

What do you work as? Are you claiming any benifits for you and or your daughter?

sakura · Post by **sakura** » Mon Dec 08, 2008 9:52 am

Vanadil wrote:What do you work as? Are you claiming any benifits for you and or your daughter?

If she is on a visa she isn't entitled to any (or at least most) benefits.

Vanadil · Post by **Vanadil** » Mon Dec 08, 2008 10:13 am

i know, thats why I asked

Sushil-ACCA · Post by **Sushil-ACCA** » Mon Dec 08, 2008 11:24 pm

India is a home of 1200m people

which includes 450 m children and there is enough room for a child so not make this issue here of not able to raise child in India

Your greed or need can be other issue for your immigration help or advice

MAKUSA · Post by **MAKUSA** » Tue Dec 09, 2008 11:29 am

Sushil-ACCA wrote:India is a home of 1200m people

which includes 450 m children and there is enough room for a child so not make this issue here of not able to raise child in India

Your greed or need can be other issue for your immigration help or advice

What happened to choice, you ignorant imbecile. Greed or need, who do you think you are, either give the lady some advice or shut your trap.

Sushil-ACCA · Post by **Sushil-ACCA** » Tue Dec 09, 2008 11:58 pm

Masuka

If name India is not involved than you can give as many advice,help and support and do anything , most welcome

but no Indian will take this kind of word for a pesonal greed

Coutry is different from last 20 year and lot of support is there for national

MAKUSA · Post by **MAKUSA** » Wed Dec 10, 2008 2:20 pm

Sushil-ACCA wrote:Masuka

If name India is not involved than you can give as many advice,help and support and do anything , most welcome

but no Indian will take this kind of word for a pesonal greed

Coutry is different from last 20 year and lot of support is there for national

A woman going back to India with a child and no husband, don't talk daft sushi. India is a country that has a caste system (a form of discrimination) and you have the audacity to tell me that all is well. Advice her and give her options or shut your piece.

jei2 · Post by **jei2** » Wed Dec 10, 2008 3:26 pm

nidhi dora wrote:Hi

I am not sure if anyone can help me with a solution.Any help would be highly appreciated.
I have been staying in this countyr for last 4.5 yrs with my husband. Got married to him (he came 6 months before and came here). Have been a dependent earlier on work permits and now a dependent on HSMP.
The ILR though due in oct hasn't been applied yet.
Now my hsuband has left me and my 11 month old daughter and i am not sure what to do.
I don't want to go back to india as i am not sure if i will be able to raise my child there.
I do work but my company is not going to work on getting me a work permit.
Is there some hope for me?
or do i have to go back?

nidhi dora

As someone with female relatives from both India and the Middle East, I'm in agreement with First-Class Moron.

But before we start World War 3 on the forum, are you able to expand on what the specific problem would be for you in returning to India with your child?

Also what nationality is your husband?

Sushil-ACCA · Post by **Sushil-ACCA** » Wed Dec 10, 2008 11:09 pm

Makasu

What she will do here

where is not discrmination , in UK ?

dont be big dreamer that women with kid have better life here

what option she have other than depend on state ?

husband mssing ? or non supportive or gone back to home country ?

u have to play by rule and respect yr roots otherwise u r ?

india may not be rich but still can absorb many in present time as well as in future

i dont waant to use foul language so be patient ?

how much u know about India ?

UKbound · Post by **UKbound** » Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:14 pm

Nidhi Dora -

First, I apologise for the responses here that seem to question your desire to stay in the UK. I'm not going to question your choice.

In terms of your questions, as Sakura has asked, it can make a difference to your options if your child was born here, the timelines, etc.

What are your husband's intentions? Has he filed for divorce or legal separation? When did this happen?

There are somewhat limited options for you if your husband is unwilling to support your application for ILR. But there may be some options available in the details.

sakura · Post by **sakura** » Fri Dec 12, 2008 8:53 am

The OP actually sent me a PM last week with details. The baby was born in their home country, not in the UK. Husband does not yet have ILR.

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PLZ HELP AND SUGGEST..ITS REALLY BAD FOR ME!

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Sushi you need to get a life

Sushi

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