jack5 wrote:I think if she had to choose between her family and me then she will choose her family. Also i understand when you say she is in the grip of her family, however god has given every person a brain. She has decided to go along with their plans knowing full well of the implications to her own life, to my life, and most importantly to our sons life. She has chosen this path and i think will stick with it.
I dont think they will drop the charges, i dont think she realises what she is doing, i think like in a game of cards they are going all in.
They made a calculated decision, and there is no going back for them. Also they must be getting some legal advice off some dodgy solicitor.
I don't think she would have sent those text if she doesn't mean them. She has nothing to gain from doing so.
I believe they will ultimately fail. Try acting nice and she will eventually start crumbling.
Remember we are shaped by who are parents make us to be.
Your western individualism and self determination might be different from her Pakistani upbringing.
Try not to gave them more ammunition to use on your wife against you.
Sometimes the fear our parents inflicts upon us affects us in our adulthood.
We all have brain but not all of us use it wisely and effectively .
For the sake of the child i will advise you , when the dust has settled , to analyse things and see how you can ensure he doesn't become a victim of his mum's actions.
At this present time, the most important thing is getting this stupid charges squashed.