Update:
Long Stay Visa denied. I asked what the reason for the denial was and I was told, "we are not informed of that information". My future mother in law in France called her friend who has a friend in Houston Texas French Consulate and it was relayed to him that I was denied because I am unemployeed at present. I am disabled and can not work, but they never wanted to hear that. And because my fiance and I have been together for so long, all our banking is done from our account in France. So, since I didn't have a bank account in the US in my own name and because I am not unemployeed and can not work in physical therapy as I am trained, my son and I were denied long stay visa to go to France, get married and be a family.
This is just a crushing blow as we have been waiting for 6+ years to be together and now that my son, who I refused to leave him pretty much motherless, wants to move to France we are told no.
I am going on my 90 days and getting married and then coming back and applying for the Spouse Long Stay visa. But Im informed that since I applied and was denied, I will not have the same day visa as any other spouse of a French National. They will have to speak to the Magistrate and they will decide if I can have the ability to live with my husband in France. This time when I walk into that Consulate I will have my husband in tow and he will do all the talking. Hopefully it will flow easily but seeing my luck as it stands now doing things legally and answering honestly, all they want are smoke, mirrors, and lies.
I refuse to do that 3 month illegal stuff until I reach 6 months in country because apparently everyone is talking as if Sarkozy regime is pretty harsh on things like that.
Has anyone successfully done this? So stressed out and worn out but not out of hope!