coolboyuk:
How on earth being here longer than Us [ 10 year legal stay] means you guys know better than us????.
Agree with coolboyuk. Length of stay in a country, per se, in no guarantee that you know better than people who have stayed legally in the UK for 10 years and played by the rules throughout their stay in the UK.
Please also allow me to add 14 year ILR applicants are more than welcome to post on this thread as long as they, perhaps, desist from rather overbearing post(s) and/or continue taking subtle pot shots at people for whom this thread was initially intended for i.e. 10 year continuous legal stay ILR applicants.
Kiwigirl25:
Some people are quick to jump to the conclusion that illegals rely on handouts therefore do not warrant the same level of "respect"(? - not sure if that is the word I'm looking for) as legals.
This is, I am afraid, subtly preparing grounds for what is known as a ‘straw man’ argument.
That goes the same for you legal chaps. Add some sensitivity to your replies to a 14 year applicants instead of adding bold statements about 2-3 years waits.
This works both ways. Generally speaking, posts on the lines of ‘we know better as we have stayed in the UK longer’ do not exactly foster spirit of kinship with 10 year continuous legal stay ILR applicants on this particular thread.
There is an old saying ‘Life is a mirror, smile and it smiles back at you’.
Now you're kicking me out of this thread on the first day you've posted because you think I don't belong. OK, so be it.
This strategy may be interpreted by some as trying to put the other party on the defensive by playing the ‘martyr’ card.
I still gonna take some time out because I'm a very emotional, easily upset, kiwigal today.
Trust me, all 10 year continuous legal stay ILR applicants here are not unemotional robots either but human beings like you and who may be just as emotional and easily upset as you are….10 year continuous legal stay applicants played by the rules through out their stay in the UK and yet have to wait sometimes for months on end after their ILR applications (so also going through a very stressful and emotionally upheaving period after having applied for ILR).
My take is it is also, to a certain extent, up to the guests not to have, perhaps, an overbearing attitude if they want to continue enjoying the hospitality of their hosts. 14 year old applicants are more than welcome to also post on this thread but, I think, first making overbearing posts and then behaving as ‘injured martyrs’ may not be the ideal way of going about it. Enough said.