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by Atan » Wed Mar 23, 2011 12:02 am
^ First of all thank you to everybody who took the time to reply.
Yes, I have met the girl in question .......... but that was over 15 years ago. There was mutual attraction and she wanted me to take further action, that is go ask my parents to approach her parents but then my time came to end in Pakistan. Once in UK I just let it go, fell in love with another girl in UK. Well that chapter is over. Oh yes, I got three great kids though.
I then heard that the said girl was still not married - Was very surprised, considering that in Pakistan 35 years old is like ancient. Cut a long story short I am in contact with her every day, she tells me she did not marry because she knew there would come a day when I would come back for her - So sweet, if only it was true! Mind you if it is true I need hanging if for nothing else then having made her wait for eternity!
Oh yes, not that its strictly speaking relevant to the thread but yeh I was born in a Muslim family, have a Muslim name, have been discriminated against for being a Muslim , if not a good Muslim so yeh I suppose that would make me a member of the Ummah.
Now I would like to get everything done if I can, without me having to leave the borders of the EC, if not preferably the borders of UK. So I guess its a case of bringing the mountain to Mohammed rather then Mohammed having to go to the mountain.
Is it possible for her to come to UK on the basis that she is going to get married and once married she will go back to Pakistan to then follow the normal route. Will the Immigration people not see that me going to Pakistan would just be exposing me to a risk ( given my condition and the risk factor in the first 12 months post MI ) when that risk can be avoided if they allow her to come to UK to do what would be done in Pakistan. Appreciate for any other feed back on this.
And yes the family are aware and agreed, I would not contenance to take a step further if the family were not aware/ agreed to it ........... unless I fancied meself being elevated to "most wanted dead or alive" list with her entire clan after me.
My Cardiologisty would definitly not approve of such a venture ...........!!!
Once again thanks to each of you guys who replied.