The German embassy in London has a normal London number for Spouses (and families!) of EU Nationals
The French embassy allows you to book an appointment online, although I can not get the web page to work for me.Spouses of EU Nationals may obtain an appointment by calling the hotline (020-7823 2854).
http://www.london.diplo.de/Vertretung/l ... seite.html
Any free appointment resource for Spain or Italy?
Also, has anyone possibly complained formally to an embassy and had the money refunded?