syma wrote:king2be98 wrote:zully wrote:Syma and King.
Hope it's the same for you guys.....and i really hope they do it quicker i know if yu write an experdite letter. or whatever its called, then the judge will ask the Eco too look at in 11 weeks I think.
Zully
Never give yourself false hope, it hurts when you don't get what you planned for.
It should be overturned in all 3 cases as they are fairly standard issues, Syma's is a Uni fee issue for exmaple, which can be covered with one headed letter and a bank statement with the outgoing amount. Pretty straightforward decision, the question is, will the ECM and their posse of idiots realise this and overturn or will they like they have in the past, suffer humiliation in court or not even show up at all.
i actually emailed islbd embassy as soon as i got my refusal i sent an email forwardin them a copy of the sent email in which i'd sent the proof of payment so i asked how can u say i dint send u proof when i did.
i got a reply sayin we do realize now that u did send the proof of payment in time but it was not availble to the ECO while making the decision so basically their admin staff's fault. but in the same email they asked that the issue still remains who actually paid this fee , wot bunch of morons
There maybe things that are really simple to the ECO but as the proof is not infront of them but yet they understand i think the only thing they can do is reject it.
In my case i think they did realise that my hubby got the wrong date in but gave and not the nikkah date, so they don't have an option. Proof is paper and it didnt match so really i cannot blame the home office body. I use to swear at the Eco everyday and say really rude swear words to them but then I decided that maybe i should'nt its there job and maybe god will test me more for swearing so now I decided im just gonna leave it.
I am gonna wait for confirmation letter from court then i will see what date they give, If I feel the need then i will ask my Mp to get involved, He is a great guy and really helpful.
I dont get my hopes up anymore im just gonna grin and bear it, there are people in pakistan that don't see their hubby for 2 3 years as they work in dubai or saudi they dont complain poor girls so im not.
I lived alone for 9 years looked after my daughter im sure i can do a few extra months with another child im use to it and i got a massive family.
baby is coming....fasting is coming....summer holidays........eid.... then it will be sept so daughter will need things for her next year but by then most the year be gone.
Maybe i will go back to work much earlier if hubby isnt here time will pass.........
zully