AliGG wrote:9 weeks gone and 3 weeks to go. lets hope we hear something this week or next week.
Shadow bro, yeh i will try using notepad etc. no problem.
Thanks
As a sponsor going through the crappy appeal process, I feel that maybe I can provide you with some words of wisdom? Here it goes.
Counting the days won't help, or the weeks for this matter. I used to cross out the days and kinda count weeks too, the end result had me devastated and I did not see the result coming.
For all you know, Allah may have other plans for you and ur wife, either be it a quick response within 10 weeks for example and she gets the visa, or it be 14 weeks and she gets the visa or maybe not. The KEY thing here to do is burn time as much as you can and pray more than ever (am not being cliche or anything but praying gives sabre and helps the mind become patient - am not kidding, it really does help).
KEY = Sabre
No way better to put it than the formula above. I know Ali it's really hard, been through that process, I know it's hard but it's all beyond your control so just leave it to Allah and don't do any countdown. Give yourself a date and once that date approaches then start to count days, etc. Your anticipated 12 week date is 10th June so may I suggest you wait till 10th June.
In waiting and successfully doing so without acknowledging how much time has lapsed you will feel like the worlds happiest person if for example she gets the visa inshallah BEFORE 10th June
Hope the above helps in guiding you the way forward for the next couple of weeks remaining. Notice I said couple and not the number of weeks left
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