I am constantly searching for answers to help me through this stressful time and I often feel the internet is not trust worthy but here it goes...
My partner and I are extremely in love. When he hurts i hurt, that kind of relationship. He's my soulmate. Only problem is, he is an overstayer of 5 yrs. He cannot go back to his country (jamaica)as they probably wont let him come back here, plus there are people out to get him. He can't apply for asylum, because his mum lives in his jamaica and he wouldn't be able to see her if he did. I have never been so emotionally drained with worry in my life. We want to get married but fear that when he goes to claim his spouse visa in his country, they won't let him. we want to have children but are afraid we wont be able to cope without him being able to work (obviously!!!). I feel stuck. Scared to go forward but never looking back. Please could some one help me. Has anyone been through this situation before? I'm so frightened that if we make a move to get things correct, it could turn very sour!!!
