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Oh, what a bunch of rubbish. Kids do not strengthen any relationship. The relationship itself is between two people. Kids are all and good if both want, but if this is not the case having children is a mistake. Having a child is a huge responsibility and it would not be just and fair neither to the child nor to the parents if the situation was forced in order to have a child, if one of the parts involved is not ready for such a step.UKBA HUNTER wrote:With due respect but its true that a lot relations break when either of the partner not willing for generating children because it does not strengthen the relationship rather create doubts. The best gift for human is children which softened even stubborn heart. I will suggest you to try to apologize by giving a nice bunch of flowers and assure her to start trying build family by forget all old memories. Try to focus and assure her to start built family and even try to involve her older family member like parents. Please try to do it, maybe that is the cause which you resolve by this way. And remember
"If you want to shine like sun firstly you have to burn like it"
Best of luck
I wish I can give you a very good reply which hovering in my mind right now but lucky you its the best forum run by excellent moderators governing board rules. Kids does strength relationship between man and woman. To a factual fact you saying rubbish which may mean you are or about to be in same situation where op is now and trying to ease your mind. I only give general advice, best advice giving people are amber, Vinny, Obie who expert in those matters.Hubba wrote:Oh, what a bunch of rubbish. Kids do not strengthen any relationship. The relationship itself is between two people. Kids are all and good if both want, but if this is not the case having children is a mistake. Having a child is a huge responsibility and it would not be just and fair neither to the child nor to the parents if the situation was forced in order to have a child, if one of the parts involved is not ready for such a step.UKBA HUNTER wrote:With due respect but its true that a lot relations break when either of the partner not willing for generating children because it does not strengthen the relationship rather create doubts. The best gift for human is children which softened even stubborn heart. I will suggest you to try to apologize by giving a nice bunch of flowers and assure her to start trying build family by forget all old memories. Try to focus and assure her to start built family and even try to involve her older family member like parents. Please try to do it, maybe that is the cause which you resolve by this way. And remember
"If you want to shine like sun firstly you have to burn like it"
Best of luck
The reason their relationship has broken down is theirs and theirs alone. Do not try to guess and assume that their relationship has broken down because they didn't have a child. A marriage is already a family, they already started a family when they married, regardless of having children or not. Stop giving bad advice, telling people to involve the other part's family members. It is their decision, not their family. Motivating people to use peer pressure to achieve their own objective is just bad.
This is a forum about immigration, not religion, not family life, not relationship advice. Keep it to it.
Kids do not strenghten the relationship between man and woman. Having a child to try to savage a ruined relationship is to disrespect the will of each individual and to be sincere, is a disrespect to the child as well. But I'm not here to change your mind about this subject, since everyone is entitled to their own opinion.UKBA HUNTER wrote:I wish I can give you a very good reply which hovering in my mind right now but lucky you its the best forum run by excellent moderators governing board rules. Kids does strength relationship between man and woman. To a factual fact you saying rubbish which may mean you are or about to be in same situation where op is now and trying to ease your mind. I only give general advice, best advice giving people are amber, Vinny, Obie who expert in those matters.Hubba wrote:Oh, what a bunch of rubbish. Kids do not strengthen any relationship. The relationship itself is between two people. Kids are all and good if both want, but if this is not the case having children is a mistake. Having a child is a huge responsibility and it would not be just and fair neither to the child nor to the parents if the situation was forced in order to have a child, if one of the parts involved is not ready for such a step.UKBA HUNTER wrote:With due respect but its true that a lot relations break when either of the partner not willing for generating children because it does not strengthen the relationship rather create doubts. The best gift for human is children which softened even stubborn heart. I will suggest you to try to apologize by giving a nice bunch of flowers and assure her to start trying build family by forget all old memories. Try to focus and assure her to start built family and even try to involve her older family member like parents. Please try to do it, maybe that is the cause which you resolve by this way. And remember
"If you want to shine like sun firstly you have to burn like it"
Best of luck
The reason their relationship has broken down is theirs and theirs alone. Do not try to guess and assume that their relationship has broken down because they didn't have a child. A marriage is already a family, they already started a family when they married, regardless of having children or not. Stop giving bad advice, telling people to involve the other part's family members. It is their decision, not their family. Motivating people to use peer pressure to achieve their own objective is just bad.
This is a forum about immigration, not religion, not family life, not relationship advice. Keep it to it.