She's not from Guyana Katie, just going there, but thank you for the reply. We have had some amazing advice on here, without it we would probably be in the loony bin by now, I've just lost all confidence that I can be sure I'm on track by myslef.
I've been through the OISC list for our area, only one of the ones in a 25 mile radius bothered getting back to me, and they were shady as... a very shady thing. I contacted another in London, paid £150 for some advice which pretty much turned out to be a few lines off the .gov website, followed by "pay us 10 times that and we'll help, only we won't tell you how we will help till you've paid".
Absolutely doing my head in
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