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by Peejay23 » Sun Apr 22, 2018 11:21 pm
Bump, to add a bit of further information, she has 2 children, both have British passports, she was never married and came and has stayed on a variety of visas but now has been served this notice. The 2 children were born here to a person who does have citizenship. Our problem is she lives in Aberdeen and I live way down south in Bedfordshire, the rent on her flat is payed for by her ex partner, but he is getting bad at paying the rent and we really want to live together anyway, her flr/fp only went in just over a month ago, she’s still not even been invited for biometrics!! So it could be over a year before her decision, then likely a refusal. We’ve known each other for about 3 years but only got serious in the last 4 months, it’s costing me a fortune travelling back and forth to Aberdeen and obviously I can’t stay in her flat so it’s Airbnb plus flights etc. Are there other options that we could pursue without her leaving the country? Really I’m happy for her to move in with me and she’s happy to move the school age child to a school near me, but her notice says she must stay at this address in Aberdeen even though that is in jeapordy, plus she has to do a 4 weekly report to the police in Aberdeen and may have to provide further information that she still lives there?? Really we are serious about each other, we know it is a long and uncertain road we are on, but she deserves the security living with me would provide and I want her filly in my life!!
Any help or suggestions welcome