Hi,
I am in the same boat (slightly) and my husband is in Egypt
.. It is incredibly difficult being apart from each other.. and it feels like the embassy really don't care that its agonising for the both of you.
My husband is week 4 of his wait (so not the same in comparrison,... i know) but you said you used Marriage Solicitors?? did they put your application together for you? and a letter representing you?
My husband used a Immigration Law Firm here in the UK. They said to me, that they also must sit and wait. My husband was told at the date of submission 10 days - 6 weeks. Our solicitor said they are only allowed to contact the embassy on our behalf after the 6 weeks.
What time frame were you given?
http://www.ukvisas.gov.uk/en/howtoapply/processingtimes
This is a good help... well guidance..
Maybe contact the Solicitors you used and see if they can contact the embassy..
Trust me.. i feel like i am simply exsisting in the UK till my husband is here...
Hope that helps?!