I've been married to a Lithuanian for 1 year and 3 months now. And we haven't seen each other for that long as well as he had to go back to UK for work after our wedding, well not right after
after few days, although he arrived in our country more than a week before our wedding. Because we have to attend seminars and counseling together we cannot get a license to marry without attending those together. Although we met already before we got married he came back after 3 months of our first meeting to marry me. He will fly back here in our country at the end of December this year and will stay here for 2 months and a half. So basically he has to quit his job so he can stay here longer because his job does not allow him to have a long vacation and he is only temporarily working to an agency and he has to leave of course the flat he is renting because he will be gone for a while and not gonna be working. (he already got a roundtrip ticket)Right now he doesn't have any savings at all like zero in his account maybe not zero but he will use it so it will be. We experienced personal problems that caused him not to be able to save anything. I am only working part time doing online entry jobs.
What are our chances what do we need? I keep hearing that bank statement is not required? But it doesn't seem so when it comes to reality maybe it says in the law but they do not follow? If you appeal it will take a very very long time???? And surely it may not be required but bank account being overdrawn every salary doesn't sound good? I will not specify the reason behind that being overdrawn because it is a different case. Although he never turned into a public funds as he has always been working in fact he has EEA1 even if they are not required to have it he just applied for one just in case we might need it.
So what do we do? What chance do we have? My husband although has a roundtrip ticket but he intend to stay longer if for example my application will be denied or disapproved by UKBA.... but the thing is he doesn't want to stay here that long not doing anything.. no work I can work but what about him? Doesn't sound good that the wife works and the husband stays at home. And he really wants us to be in UK than in my country because my country is very far from his country he cannot visit his family that often and he is close to them unlike me I have been away from my family since my family is scattered to different places and not so close like he does.
Well so much of my story telling..... What do we need? What do we do? What do we submit? We are even having problems answering other questions to the form VAF5, I wish I can ask anyone here to help us how to answer that form some questions are tricky. And we are worried we might not be able to create a proper letter for the application.
What do we need to do? Do we have a chance? What documents do we need? The major documents they need to see?
Will it complicate the application if I will ask my aunt to write a letter to include in my application that she will support me in my stay in UK a letter from her with her bank statement account? (My aunt is in USA) although I do not intend for her to really support me but just for documentation for the application as I will work and my husband will work. Just now we do not have anything at all.
so that is why I am asking coz everyone says it is not necessary but the ukba includes that in their supporting docs